{"id":6309,"date":"2024-05-17T09:03:49","date_gmt":"2024-05-17T09:03:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=6309"},"modified":"2024-05-17T09:25:20","modified_gmt":"2024-05-17T09:25:20","slug":"we-all-need-time-alone-heres-how-to-embrace-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=6309","title":{"rendered":"We All Need Time Alone. Here\u2019s How to Embrace It."},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" data-testid=\"onsite-summary\" class=\"css-1n0orw4 e1wiw3jv0\">Alone time can help you reduce stress and manage emotions, but you have to be intentional about it, experts say.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">I\u2019m a person who craves regular alone time. At home, I take quick walks. At work, I sometimes disappear into the office supply closet, which is always deserted. I find the orderly stacks of notebooks soothing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">When I can\u2019t grab these moments, I tend to get twitchy. Robert Coplan, a psychologist at Carleton University in Ottawa, describes this as \u201caloneliness\u201d: the negative feeling that crops up when people get less solitude than they need.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">And, most of us do require a balance of solo and social time, said Thuy-vy Nguyen, a social psychologist who runs the Solitude Lab at Durham University in Britain and is an author of the book \u201cSolitude: The Science and Power of Being Alone.\u201d Her research has found that spending time alone has physical and emotional benefits, such as <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/0146167217733073\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">stress reduction and mood regulation<\/a>, and can lead to increased creativity and productivity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">With that in mind, I asked experts how to recognize when you need more solitude, and how to incorporate it into your life.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<h3 class=\"css-15h6bi9 e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-5fbebbf0\"><span>Take your \u201csolitude pulse.\u201d<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Solitude is different from <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/05\/06\/well\/loneliness-mental-health-age.html\" title>loneliness<\/a>, said Virginia Thomas, an assistant professor of psychology at Middlebury College. The latter is the feeling that we\u2019re not connected to others as much as we would like, which produces emotional distress. On the other hand, intentionally seeking out some time to spend alone, she said, is \u201calmost always experienced positively.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">There\u2019s no standard amount of time that people should be alone, Dr. Thomas said, so she recommends checking in with yourself and tracking your moods. 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At home, I take quick walks. At work, I sometimes disappear into the office supply closet, which is always deserted. I find the orderly stacks of notebooks soothing.When I can\u2019t grab these moments, I tend to get twitchy. Robert Coplan, a psychologist at Carleton University in Ottawa, describes this as \u201caloneliness\u201d: the negative feeling that crops up when people get less solitude than they need.And, most of us do require a balance of solo and social time, said Thuy-vy Nguyen, a social psychologist who runs the Solitude Lab at Durham University in Britain and is an author of the book \u201cSolitude: The Science and Power of Being Alone.\u201d Her research has found that spending time alone has physical and emotional benefits, such as stress reduction and mood regulation, and can lead to increased creativity and productivity.With that in mind, I asked experts how to recognize when you need more solitude, and how to incorporate it into your life.Take your \u201csolitude pulse.\u201dSolitude is different from loneliness, said Virginia Thomas, an assistant professor of psychology at Middlebury College. The latter is the feeling that we\u2019re not connected to others as much as we would like, which produces emotional distress. On the other hand, intentionally seeking out some time to spend alone, she said, is \u201calmost always experienced positively.\u201dThere\u2019s no standard amount of time that people should be alone, Dr. Thomas said, so she recommends checking in with yourself and tracking your moods. Do you find yourself feeling irritable or depleted, and could you benefit from stepping away for a bit?We are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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