{"id":5383,"date":"2024-05-01T09:01:55","date_gmt":"2024-05-01T09:01:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=5383"},"modified":"2024-05-01T09:24:00","modified_gmt":"2024-05-01T09:24:00","slug":"modern-love-podcast-emily-ratajkowski-can-take-care-of-herself-but-a-little-help-would-be-nice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=5383","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Modern Love Podcast\u2019: Emily Ratajkowski Can Take Care of Herself, But a Little Help Would Be Nice"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<div class=\"css-zera2v\">\n<div class=\"css-103l8m3\">\n<div class=\"css-1e2jphy epjyd6m1\">\n<div class=\"css-233int epjyd6m0\">\n<p class=\"css-1xuzukf e1jsehar1\">\n<p class=\"css-1xuzukf e1jsehar1\"><span class=\"css-1baulvz\">Julia Botero<!-- -->,\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"css-1baulvz\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/by\/christina-djossa\" class=\"css-n8ff4n e1jsehar0\">Christina Djossa<\/a>,\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"css-1baulvz\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/by\/reva-goldberg\" class=\"css-n8ff4n e1jsehar0\">Reva Goldberg<\/a>,\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"css-1baulvz\">Emily Lang<\/span> and <\/p>\n<p class=\"css-1xuzukf e1jsehar1\">\n<p class=\"css-1xuzukf e1jsehar1\">\n<p class=\"css-1xuzukf e1jsehar1\"><span class=\"css-1baulvz\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/by\/dan-powell\" class=\"css-n8ff4n e1jsehar0\">Dan Powell<\/a>,\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"css-1baulvz\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/by\/diane-wong\" class=\"css-n8ff4n e1jsehar0\">Diane Wong<\/a>,\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"css-1baulvz\">Pat McCusker<!-- -->,\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"css-1baulvz\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/by\/rowan-niemisto\" class=\"css-n8ff4n e1jsehar0\">Rowan Niemisto<\/a><\/span> and <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3 class=\"css-1vs5pxi e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-1f0d962a\"><span><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Listen and follow <\/em><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/column\/modern-love-podcast\" title><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Modern Love<\/em><\/a><br \/><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/modern-love\/id1065559535?mt=2\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Apple Podcasts<\/a> | <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/03Er7mSPq9IEewOgbPD3vO?si=CYApBISZSoCH6AjwdiGsFw\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spotify<\/a>| <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/music.amazon.com\/podcasts\/c40b7b82-b31d-493d-ac33-273b39d153ca\/modern-love\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon Music<\/a><\/span><\/h3>\n<h2 class=\"css-9dv0rw eoo0vm40\" id=\"link-5913e894\">\u201cI think that was a mistake I made in past relationships, where I was like, I\u2019ve got it. Then this tender part of me would emerge. And it would feel shameful and embarrassing, particularly if I had to be explicit about asking for care or love.\u201d<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div data-testid=\"imageblock-wrapper\">\n<figure class=\"img-sz-medium css-mqw7kw e1g7ppur0\" aria-label=\"media\" role=\"group\">\n<div class=\"css-1xdhyk6 erfvjey0\" data-testid=\"photoviewer-children-figure\"><\/div><figcaption data-testid=\"photoviewer-children-caption\" class=\"css-gbc9ki ewdxa0s0\"><span class=\"css-1u46b97 e1z0qqy90\"><span><span aria-hidden=\"false\">Photo Illustration by The New York Times; Photo: Pierre Mouton\/Getty Images for Acne<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Emily Ratajkowski is doing a balancing act many famously beautiful women have to perform. In her 2021 book \u201cMy Body,\u201d she reflects on what it\u2019s been like to build a career based on her public image, and her struggle to control that image in an industry largely run by men. Since getting divorced a few years ago, she\u2019s been thinking a lot about gender dynamics and the type of agency she wants to have in dating, too.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Today, Ratajkowski reads \u201c<a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2018\/10\/26\/style\/modern-love-im-the-man.html\" title>Why I Fell for an \u2018I\u2019m the Man\u2019 Man<\/a>,\u201d by Susan Forray. Forray is also a successful, self-sufficient woman, dating after divorce. She\u2019s surprised to find herself falling for a man with old-fashioned ideas about who does what in a relationship. (He pays for dinner, handles the finances and initiates sex). As a single mom who handles everything, Ratajkowski says, she can relate to the desire to be cared for once in a while. And that doesn\u2019t have to mean playing into a sexist stereotype.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div data-testid=\"lazy-loader\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-798hid etfikam0\"><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Links to transcripts of episodes generally appear on these pages within a week.<\/em><\/p>\n<hr class=\"css-7ad88g e1mu4ftr0\" \/>\n<p class=\"css-798hid etfikam0\">Modern Love is hosted by Anna Martin and produced by Julia Botero, Reva Goldberg, Davis Land, Emily Lang and Christina Djossa. The show is edited by Davis Land, Reva Goldberg, Larissa Anderson and Jen Poyant, our executive producer. The show is mixed by Daniel Ramirez and recorded by Maddy Masiello and Nick Pitman. It features original music by Pat McCusker, Marion Lozano, Rowan Niemisto and Diane Wong. Our theme music is by Dan Powell.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-798hid etfikam0\">Special thanks to Caitlin Love, Kate LoPresti, Lisa Tobin, Daniel Jones, Miya Lee, Mahima Chablani, Nell Gallogly, Jeffrey Miranda, Isabella Anderson, Reyna Desai, Renan Borelli, Nina Lassam and Julia Simon.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-798hid etfikam0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Thoughts? <\/strong>Email us at <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"mailto:modernlove@nytimes.com\" title>modernlovepodcast@nytimes.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Want more from <\/strong><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\"><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/column\/modern-love\" title>Modern Love<\/a><\/strong><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">?<\/strong> Read past <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/column\/modern-love\" title>stories<\/a>. Watch the <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2019\/09\/12\/style\/modern-love-tv-show-trailer.html\" title>TV series<\/a> and sign up for the <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/newsletters\/love-letter\" title>newsletter<\/a>. We also have swag at <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/store.nytimes.com\/collections\/modern-love\" title>the NYT Store<\/a> and two books, \u201c<a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.penguinrandomhouse.com\/books\/623036\/modern-love-revised-and-updated-by-edited-by-daniel-jones-with-contributions-by-andrew-rannells-ayelet-waldman-amy-krouse-rosenthal-veronica-chambers-and-more\/\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Modern Love: True Stories of Love, Loss, and Redemption<\/a>\u201d and \u201c<a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/titles\/daniel-jones\/tiny-love-stories\/9781579659912\/\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Tiny Love Stories: True Tales of Love in 100 Words or Less<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Julia Botero<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5385,"comment_status":"close","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5383","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5383","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5383"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5383\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5386,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5383\/revisions\/5386"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5385"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5383"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5383"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5383"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}