{"id":5097,"date":"2024-04-26T09:04:24","date_gmt":"2024-04-26T09:04:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=5097"},"modified":"2024-04-26T09:23:59","modified_gmt":"2024-04-26T09:23:59","slug":"5-ways-to-support-a-friend-through-a-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=5097","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways to Support a Friend Through a Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" data-testid=\"onsite-summary\" class=\"css-1n0orw4 e1wiw3jv0\">The end of a marriage can be incredibly isolating. But small gestures from loved ones can provide some relief.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">When my sister Dinah\u2019s marriage ended after 25 years, one of her friends set up twice weekly \u201cvent walks,\u201d where my sister could say anything she wanted about her divorce \u2014 with no fear she was being a burden.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cAfter a while, you feel self-conscious talking about it,\u201d Dinah told me, \u201clike people want you to move on.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">About a third of American adults who marry end up <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.census.gov\/content\/dam\/Census\/library\/publications\/2021\/demo\/p70-167.pdf\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">getting a divorce<\/a>. But for such a common experience, divorce can feel incredibly isolating, said Jeffrey Gardere, a clinical psychologist in Manhattan.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cIt completely changes your life direction,\u201d said Dr. Gardere, who is divorced himself. \u201cYou feel rudderless.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">A thoughtful, specific gesture like a \u201cvent walk\u201d can be a gift, he said. So I asked experts for other ideas to help a loved one who is going through a divorce.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"css-15h6bi9 e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-1c0b260\"><span>Make plans during the toughest part of your friend\u2019s week.<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">For those who are newly divorced, some parts of the week can be especially painful, said Claudia Glaser-Mussen, a psychotherapist in New York City.<\/p>\n<div class=\"css-1336jj\">\n<div class=\"css-121kum4\">\n<div class=\"css-171d1bw\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-asuuk5\">\n<div class=\"css-7axq9l\" data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript\">\n<div data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript-message\" class=\"css-6yo1no\">\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">We are having trouble retrieving the article content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-1dv1kvn\" id=\"optimistic-truncator-a11y\">\n<hr \/>\n<p>Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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But small gestures from loved ones can provide some relief.When my sister Dinah\u2019s marriage ended after 25 years, one of her friends set up twice weekly \u201cvent walks,\u201d where my sister could say anything she wanted about her divorce \u2014 with no fear she was being a burden.\u201cAfter a while, you feel self-conscious talking about it,\u201d Dinah told me, \u201clike people want you to move on.\u201dAbout a third of American adults who marry end up getting a divorce. But for such a common experience, divorce can feel incredibly isolating, said Jeffrey Gardere, a clinical psychologist in Manhattan.\u201cIt completely changes your life direction,\u201d said Dr. Gardere, who is divorced himself. \u201cYou feel rudderless.\u201dA thoughtful, specific gesture like a \u201cvent walk\u201d can be a gift, he said. So I asked experts for other ideas to help a loved one who is going through a divorce.Make plans during the toughest part of your friend\u2019s week.For those who are newly divorced, some parts of the week can be especially painful, said Claudia Glaser-Mussen, a psychotherapist in New York City.We are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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