{"id":32146,"date":"2025-07-19T09:00:22","date_gmt":"2025-07-19T09:00:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=32146"},"modified":"2025-07-19T09:29:56","modified_gmt":"2025-07-19T09:29:56","slug":"how-to-improve-your-self-control","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=32146","title":{"rendered":"How to Improve Your Self-Control"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" class=\"css-79rysd e1wiw3jv0\">People who can delay gratification and master their impulses thrive in life. And experts say that you can learn skills to rein in bad habits.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-0\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">We tend to respect and even idolize those who exhibit a lot of willpower. The friend who hits up the gym five times a week. The social media influencer who maintains a meticulously decorated, camera-ready home. That colleague who manages to stay calm and focused in nearly every situation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Research suggests that these people are not only <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/pubs\/journals\/features\/psp-pspa0000385.pdf\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">viewed as trustworthy<\/a> but also <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/34990158\/\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">morally superior<\/a>. How can we mere mortals compare? Polls show that many Americans are feeling heightened levels of <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.psychiatry.org\/news-room\/news-releases\/annual-mental-health-poll-2025\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">anxiety and stress<\/a>, which can make delaying gratification and inhibiting impulses <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.albany.edu\/~muraven\/publications\/promotion%20files\/articles\/muraven%20&amp;%20baumeister,%202000.pdf\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">even harder<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">But willpower shouldn\u2019t be confused with self-control. While you can use willpower to manage your emotions or fight temptation, research suggests that it <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/39264679\/\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">may not be the most effective method<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">To improve willpower, it boils down to \u201cjust try harder,\u201d said Kentaro Fujita, a professor of psychology at Ohio State University who studies self-regulation and decision making. But self-control involves a set of skills that can be learned, he added.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"Dropzone-1\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-1\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Preparation, mind-set and the ability to either avoid or reframe <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/21685152\/\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">temptation<\/a> can be far more effective than trying to \u201cforce that desire down,\u201d Dr. Fujita said.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"css-1njxe4c eoo0vm40\" id=\"link-1ae1eacf\">First, what is \u2018self-control\u2019 and why does it matter?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Traditionally, psychologists have defined self-control as the ability to wait for later, larger rewards. But it can also be thought of as a way to alter your thoughts, feelings and behaviors to reach a specific goal. When we have self-control, we can resist unhealthy impulses and persevere when we feel like quitting, experts say.<\/p>\n<div class=\"css-kbghgg\">\n<div class=\"css-121kum4\">\n<div class=\"css-171quhb\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-asuuk5\">\n<div class=\"css-7axq9l\" data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript\">\n<div data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript-message\" class=\"css-6yo1no\">\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\" data-tpl=\"t\">We are having trouble retrieving the article content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\" data-tpl=\"t\">Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-1dv1kvn\" id=\"optimistic-truncator-a11y\">\n<hr \/>\n<p>Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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And experts say that you can learn skills to rein in bad habits.We tend to respect and even idolize those who exhibit a lot of willpower. The friend who hits up the gym five times a week. The social media influencer who maintains a meticulously decorated, camera-ready home. That colleague who manages to stay calm and focused in nearly every situation.Research suggests that these people are not only viewed as trustworthy but also morally superior. How can we mere mortals compare? Polls show that many Americans are feeling heightened levels of anxiety and stress, which can make delaying gratification and inhibiting impulses even harder.But willpower shouldn\u2019t be confused with self-control. While you can use willpower to manage your emotions or fight temptation, research suggests that it may not be the most effective method.To improve willpower, it boils down to \u201cjust try harder,\u201d said Kentaro Fujita, a professor of psychology at Ohio State University who studies self-regulation and decision making. But self-control involves a set of skills that can be learned, he added.Preparation, mind-set and the ability to either avoid or reframe temptation can be far more effective than trying to \u201cforce that desire down,\u201d Dr. Fujita said.First, what is \u2018self-control\u2019 and why does it matter?Traditionally, psychologists have defined self-control as the ability to wait for later, larger rewards. But it can also be thought of as a way to alter your thoughts, feelings and behaviors to reach a specific goal. 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