{"id":30393,"date":"2025-06-24T20:09:06","date_gmt":"2025-06-24T20:09:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=30393"},"modified":"2025-06-24T20:28:01","modified_gmt":"2025-06-24T20:28:01","slug":"women-in-menopause-dont-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=30393","title":{"rendered":"Women in Menopause Don\u2019t Care"},"content":{"rendered":"

The \u201cWe Do Not Care\u201d club, founded by influencer Melani Sanders, celebrates women who have stopped trying to please everyone.<\/p>\n

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Unpainted toenails. Chin hairs<\/a>. Separating laundry by darks, lights and colors. Dress codes.<\/p>\n

What do women in perimenopause and menopause have to say about these things? We do not care.<\/p>\n

That is the message being spread by Melani Sanders<\/a>, a 45-year-old mother of three and social media influencer in West Palm Beach, Fla., who has gained a huge following for celebrating women of a certain age who have stopped trying to please everyone. Hundreds of thousands of women<\/a> around the world<\/a> have responded to Ms. Sanders\u2019 call to share what they no longer care about. They\u2019re now all members of her \u201cWe Do Not Care\u201d Club.<\/p>\n

In viral videos<\/a>, Ms. Sanders rattles off their responses. She peers out from behind her reading glasses (with another two pairs tucked into her T-shirt collar) and deadpans: \u201cWe do not care about arm fat. It\u2019s not our fault our muscles grow down and not up.\u201d<\/p>\n

She looks down at her notebook, checking off that submission with a pen before moving onto the next one.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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\u201cWe do not care if we don\u2019t show up for the family cookout. Most of y\u2019all have undiagnosed trauma that we honestly just don\u2019t want to deal with right now.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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The \u201cWe Do Not Care\u201d club, founded by influencer Melani Sanders, celebrates women who have stopped trying to please everyone.Unpainted toenails. Chin hairs. Separating laundry by darks, lights and colors. Dress codes.What do women in perimenopause and menopause have to say about these things? We do not care.That is the message being spread by Melani Sanders, a 45-year-old mother of three and social media influencer in West Palm Beach, Fla., who has gained a huge following for celebrating women of a certain age who have stopped trying to please everyone. Hundreds of thousands of women around the world have responded to Ms. Sanders\u2019 call to share what they no longer care about. They\u2019re now all members of her \u201cWe Do Not Care\u201d Club.In viral videos, Ms. Sanders rattles off their responses. She peers out from behind her reading glasses (with another two pairs tucked into her T-shirt collar) and deadpans: \u201cWe do not care about arm fat. It\u2019s not our fault our muscles grow down and not up.\u201dShe looks down at her notebook, checking off that submission with a pen before moving onto the next one.\u201cWe do not care if we don\u2019t show up for the family cookout. Most of y\u2019all have undiagnosed trauma that we honestly just don\u2019t want to deal with right now.\u201dTikTokWe are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.Thank you for your patience while we verify access. If you are in Reader mode please exit and\u00a0log into\u00a0your Times account, or\u00a0subscribe\u00a0for all of The Times.Thank you for your patience while we verify access.Already a subscriber?\u00a0Log in.Want all of The Times?\u00a0Subscribe.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":30395,"comment_status":"close","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-30393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=30393"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30393\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30396,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30393\/revisions\/30396"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/30395"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=30393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=30393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=30393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}