{"id":29020,"date":"2025-06-04T15:04:37","date_gmt":"2025-06-04T15:04:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=29020"},"modified":"2025-06-04T15:22:53","modified_gmt":"2025-06-04T15:22:53","slug":"5-books-on-navigating-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=29020","title":{"rendered":"5 Books on Navigating Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" class=\"css-79rysd e1wiw3jv0\">Researchers share the titles they recommend most often.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-0\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">When parents estranged from their children share what\u2019s going on, many imagine other people thinking, \u201cWhat\u2019s wrong with you?\u201d said Karl Pillemer, a professor of human development at Cornell University.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Though estrangement \u2014 or family cutoff \u2014 can feel isolating, it\u2019s actually fairly common. A <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/today.yougov.com\/society\/articles\/44817-poll-family-ties-proximity-and-estrangement\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">2022 YouGov poll<\/a> of Americans found that 29 percent of subjects were estranged from a parent, grandparent, sibling or child.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">People experiencing estrangement often crave tools to deal with the loss and assurance that they aren\u2019t alone \u2014 and a number of recent books may help make sense of what they\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">We asked nine experts who research the topic for recommendations. Because the field is still growing, many of them endorsed the same books. And several experts interviewed for this article appear on this list because their work was highly recommended by colleagues.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"Dropzone-1\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-1\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">The five titles below offer guidance on navigating family rifts, coping with pain and finding a path forward. But they won\u2019t necessarily help mend broken ties.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">As Kathleen Smith, a therapist and faculty member at the Bowen Center for the Study of the Family in Washington, D.C., put it, \u201cthe goal is not to prevent estrangement or encourage it, but to help a person get their best thinking involved in the decision.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"css-kbghgg\">\n<div class=\"css-121kum4\">\n<div class=\"css-171quhb\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-asuuk5\">\n<div class=\"css-7axq9l\" data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript\">\n<div data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript-message\" class=\"css-6yo1no\">\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">We are having trouble retrieving the article content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-1dv1kvn\" id=\"optimistic-truncator-a11y\">\n<hr \/>\n<p>Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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A 2022 YouGov poll of Americans found that 29 percent of subjects were estranged from a parent, grandparent, sibling or child.People experiencing estrangement often crave tools to deal with the loss and assurance that they aren\u2019t alone \u2014 and a number of recent books may help make sense of what they\u2019re going through.We asked nine experts who research the topic for recommendations. Because the field is still growing, many of them endorsed the same books. And several experts interviewed for this article appear on this list because their work was highly recommended by colleagues.The five titles below offer guidance on navigating family rifts, coping with pain and finding a path forward. But they won\u2019t necessarily help mend broken ties.As Kathleen Smith, a therapist and faculty member at the Bowen Center for the Study of the Family in Washington, D.C., put it, \u201cthe goal is not to prevent estrangement or encourage it, but to help a person get their best thinking involved in the decision.\u201dWe are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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