{"id":28980,"date":"2025-06-04T09:01:53","date_gmt":"2025-06-04T09:01:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=28980"},"modified":"2025-06-04T09:30:36","modified_gmt":"2025-06-04T09:30:36","slug":"modern-love-podcast-first-love-mixtape-side-b-encore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=28980","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Modern Love\u2019 Podcast: First Love Mixtape: Side B (Encore)"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-0\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<div class=\"css-ms3zov\">\n<div class=\"css-14jae4t\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3 class=\"css-1vs5pxi e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-2644e180\"><span><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Listen to and follow <\/em><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/column\/modern-love-podcast\" title><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Modern Love<\/em><\/a><br \/><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/modern-love\/id1065559535?mt=2\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Apple Podcasts<\/a> | <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/03Er7mSPq9IEewOgbPD3vO?si=CYApBISZSoCH6AjwdiGsFw\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spotify<\/a> | <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/music.amazon.com\/podcasts\/c40b7b82-b31d-493d-ac33-273b39d153ca\/modern-love\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon Music<\/a> | <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/playlist?list=PLdMrbgYfVl-s2_KrR5DosEB0gqr4w-XZd\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">YouTube<\/a> |<a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.iheart.com\/podcast\/560-modern-love-28288069\/\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">iHeartRadio<\/a><\/span><\/h3>\n<h2 class=\"css-tosae5 eoo0vm40\" id=\"link-3cbbaabc\">\u2018When I was 14, I wrote the lyrics to \u201cGhost\u201d by the Indigo Girls on my Converse high-tops. The song is this whole tortured look back at a love that starts in adolescence, and I wanted so much to be destroyed like that.\u2019<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"ImageBlock-1\">\n<div data-testid=\"imageblock-wrapper\">\n<figure class=\"img-sz-medium css-mqw7kw e1g7ppur0\" aria-label=\"media\" role=\"group\">\n<div class=\"css-1xdhyk6 erfvjey0\" data-testid=\"photoviewer-children-figure\"><\/div><figcaption data-testid=\"photoviewer-children-caption\" class=\"css-gbc9ki ewdxa0s0\"><span class=\"css-14fe1uy e1z0qqy90\"><span><span aria-hidden=\"false\">Illustration by Brian Rea<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-1\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">In last week\u2019s <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2025\/05\/28\/podcasts\/love-soundtrack-music.html\" title>episode<\/a>, the Modern Love team shared the songs that taught<em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\"> <\/em>us about love when we were young. But in this week\u2019s episode, we hear from you, our listeners, about the songs that helped shape <em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">your<\/em> ideas about love.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">We heard from present-day teens streaming their anthems on repeat, and we heard from listeners who have been with their partners for over 50 years. There were stories of jazz and rap; adrenaline rushes and loneliness; and many hard-won lessons in matters of the heart. (\u201cDon\u2019t let your friends choose your boyfriends,\u201d Amy from St. Louis said.) We share a compilation of some of your songs and stories in the first half of our episode.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">And we finish our episode with an <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2019\/12\/06\/style\/modern-love-no-hearing-aids-then-no-marriage.html\" title>essay about the end of love<\/a>. After more than 50 years of marriage, Tina Welling decided that she wanted a divorce \u2014 a decision that turned out to be liberating.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Thank you to all of the listeners who sent us their teenage anthems. We\u2019ve compiled them into <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/playlist\/5PpJ2xkawJWHLpPXW4kNgf?si=e96543458a494e86\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">one glorious Spotify playlist<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"Dropzone-3\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-2\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">[You can listen to this episode above, or on <\/em><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/modern-love\/id1065559535?mt=2\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Apple Podcasts<\/em><\/a><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">, <\/em><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/03Er7mSPq9IEewOgbPD3vO?si=CYApBISZSoCH6AjwdiGsFw&amp;nd=1\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Spotify<\/em><\/a><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">, <\/em><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/music.amazon.com\/podcasts\/c40b7b82-b31d-493d-ac33-273b39d153ca\/modern-love\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Amazon Music<\/em><\/a><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\"> or wherever you get your podcasts.]<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"css-kbghgg\">\n<div class=\"css-121kum4\">\n<div class=\"css-171quhb\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-asuuk5\">\n<div class=\"css-7axq9l\" data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript\">\n<div data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript-message\" class=\"css-6yo1no\">\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">We are having trouble retrieving the article content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-1dv1kvn\" id=\"optimistic-truncator-a11y\">\n<hr \/>\n<p>Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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The song is this whole tortured look back at a love that starts in adolescence, and I wanted so much to be destroyed like that.\u2019Illustration by Brian ReaIn last week\u2019s episode, the Modern Love team shared the songs that taught us about love when we were young. But in this week\u2019s episode, we hear from you, our listeners, about the songs that helped shape your ideas about love.We heard from present-day teens streaming their anthems on repeat, and we heard from listeners who have been with their partners for over 50 years. There were stories of jazz and rap; adrenaline rushes and loneliness; and many hard-won lessons in matters of the heart. (\u201cDon\u2019t let your friends choose your boyfriends,\u201d Amy from St. Louis said.) We share a compilation of some of your songs and stories in the first half of our episode.And we finish our episode with an essay about the end of love. After more than 50 years of marriage, Tina Welling decided that she wanted a divorce \u2014 a decision that turned out to be liberating.Thank you to all of the listeners who sent us their teenage anthems. We\u2019ve compiled them into one glorious Spotify playlist.[You can listen to this episode above, or on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music or wherever you get your podcasts.]We are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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