{"id":23346,"date":"2025-03-06T09:00:05","date_gmt":"2025-03-06T10:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=23346"},"modified":"2025-03-06T10:24:31","modified_gmt":"2025-03-06T10:24:31","slug":"digging-out-of-a-therapy-rut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=23346","title":{"rendered":"Digging Out of a Therapy Rut"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" class=\"css-79rysd e1wiw3jv0\">Here\u2019s how to know, and how to get out of it.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-0\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Therapy has been a part of Katerina Kelly\u2019s weekly routine since elementary school, when a teacher suggested counseling for the 8-year-old.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">At the time, Katerina\u2019s autism was affecting their ability to manage time, make decisions and socialize. And for many years, the therapist seemed helpful. But once college rolled around, things changed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cI always left counseling feeling either worse than I started \u2014 or numb,\u201d said Mx. Kelly, 29, who lives in Natick, Mass, and uses they\/them pronouns.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">The skills that Mx. Kelly\u2019s therapist had taught her in childhood weren\u2019t translating as well now that she was older. In other words, they had hit a rut \u2014 the therapy, and the therapist, were not producing the desired results.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"Dropzone-1\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-1\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">A therapy rut can feel disheartening, but it doesn\u2019t have to end your pursuit of better mental health. We asked psychologists how to identify whether you\u2019ve reached a sticking point and what to do about it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"css-1u37br4 eoo0vm40\" id=\"link-db070e\">What exactly is a therapy rut?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">If you\u2019ve hit a rut, you may feel as if your therapy sessions have stalled or become unhelpful, said Jameca Woody Cooper, president of the Missouri Psychological Association.<\/p>\n<div class=\"css-1336jj\">\n<div class=\"css-121kum4\">\n<div class=\"css-171quhb\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-asuuk5\">\n<div class=\"css-7axq9l\" data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript\">\n<div data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript-message\" class=\"css-6yo1no\">\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">We are having trouble retrieving the article content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-1dv1kvn\" id=\"optimistic-truncator-a11y\">\n<hr \/>\n<p>Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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And for many years, the therapist seemed helpful. But once college rolled around, things changed.\u201cI always left counseling feeling either worse than I started \u2014 or numb,\u201d said Mx. Kelly, 29, who lives in Natick, Mass, and uses they\/them pronouns.The skills that Mx. Kelly\u2019s therapist had taught her in childhood weren\u2019t translating as well now that she was older. In other words, they had hit a rut \u2014 the therapy, and the therapist, were not producing the desired results.A therapy rut can feel disheartening, but it doesn\u2019t have to end your pursuit of better mental health. We asked psychologists how to identify whether you\u2019ve reached a sticking point and what to do about it.What exactly is a therapy rut?If you\u2019ve hit a rut, you may feel as if your therapy sessions have stalled or become unhelpful, said Jameca Woody Cooper, president of the Missouri Psychological Association.We are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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