{"id":22718,"date":"2025-02-24T15:00:07","date_gmt":"2025-02-24T16:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=22718"},"modified":"2025-02-24T16:28:21","modified_gmt":"2025-02-24T16:28:21","slug":"these-5-books-might-make-you-a-better-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=22718","title":{"rendered":"These 5 Books Might Make You a Better Friend"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" class=\"css-79rysd e1wiw3jv0\">Counselors, researchers and health professionals share the titles they recommend the most.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-0\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Emely Rumble, a therapist in New York City who brings literature into her practice, knows that reading can help people reflect on their lives.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">In the summer of 2024, she hosted a book group discussion on \u201cFighting for Our Friendships,\u201d by Danielle Bayard Jackson. As the group analyzed how someone in the book handled a challenging friendship, a group member had \u201can emotional breakthrough,\u201d Ms. Rumble recalled.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">The group member realized she\u2019d tackled her own issue the opposite way, Ms. Rumble explained, and decided to take action that night. She sent her old friend a voice message, and after years of silence, the pair began repairing their friendship, Ms. Rumble said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Friendships are vital to our health, <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2022\/05\/07\/well\/live\/adult-friendships-number.html\" title>the research shows<\/a>, yet they often take a back seat to romantic relationships. \u201cThere are so few resources devoted to the topic,\u201d said Miriam Kirmayer, a clinical psychologist in Montreal who focuses on social connection. 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As the group analyzed how someone in the book handled a challenging friendship, a group member had \u201can emotional breakthrough,\u201d Ms. Rumble recalled.The group member realized she\u2019d tackled her own issue the opposite way, Ms. Rumble explained, and decided to take action that night. She sent her old friend a voice message, and after years of silence, the pair began repairing their friendship, Ms. Rumble said.Friendships are vital to our health, the research shows, yet they often take a back seat to romantic relationships. \u201cThere are so few resources devoted to the topic,\u201d said Miriam Kirmayer, a clinical psychologist in Montreal who focuses on social connection. But books, she said, can give us tools for creating and sustaining meaningful bonds.These five titles, recommended by counselors, researchers and health professionals, explore how to build, nurture and repair your friendships \u2014 helping you shift your mind-set and find more joy in them.G.P. 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