{"id":21686,"date":"2025-02-06T15:00:05","date_gmt":"2025-02-06T16:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=21686"},"modified":"2025-02-06T16:23:22","modified_gmt":"2025-02-06T16:23:22","slug":"3-ways-to-change-your-mood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=21686","title":{"rendered":"3 Ways to Change Your Mood"},"content":{"rendered":"
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In his new book, the emotion researcher Ethan Kross shares strategies for managing life\u2019s curveballs.<\/p>\n

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Emotions are a fundamental part of what make us human. They can be overwhelming, complicated or quiet \u2014 but we experience at least one emotion 90 percent of the time, according to a 2015 study<\/a> that examined the emotional lives of more than 11,000 people.<\/p>\n

This finding doesn\u2019t shock Ethan Kross, the director of the Emotion and Self-Control Laboratory at the University of Michigan, who has been studying the science of emotion for over two decades.<\/p>\n

What did surprise him, however, were results from another study<\/a>, which found that about 40 percent of participants believed that you can\u2019t control your emotions.<\/p>\n

\u201cI was really floored,\u201d Dr. Kross said. \u201cIf you don\u2019t even think it is possible to manage your emotions, why would you ever try to do it?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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He contends that emotions, even negative ones, are information, and that we can often find ways to make them work for us. It\u2019s not possible to control every part of our emotional lives, said Dr. Kross (who admits that he sometimes still feels fear before he has to speak publicly). But people who are good at managing their feelings, he said, are less lonely<\/a>, live longer<\/a>, maintain more fulfilling romantic relationships<\/a> and are more satisfied with their lives<\/a>.<\/p>\n

His new book, \u201cShift: Managing Your Emotions \u2014 So They Don\u2019t Manage You,\u201d provides a blueprint for navigating the emotional curveballs that life throws at us every day.<\/p>\n

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In his new book, the emotion researcher Ethan Kross shares strategies for managing life\u2019s curveballs.Emotions are a fundamental part of what make us human. They can be overwhelming, complicated or quiet \u2014 but we experience at least one emotion 90 percent of the time, according to a 2015 study that examined the emotional lives of more than 11,000 people.This finding doesn\u2019t shock Ethan Kross, the director of the Emotion and Self-Control Laboratory at the University of Michigan, who has been studying the science of emotion for over two decades.What did surprise him, however, were results from another study, which found that about 40 percent of participants believed that you can\u2019t control your emotions.\u201cI was really floored,\u201d Dr. Kross said. \u201cIf you don\u2019t even think it is possible to manage your emotions, why would you ever try to do it?\u201dHe contends that emotions, even negative ones, are information, and that we can often find ways to make them work for us. It\u2019s not possible to control every part of our emotional lives, said Dr. Kross (who admits that he sometimes still feels fear before he has to speak publicly). But people who are good at managing their feelings, he said, are less lonely, live longer, maintain more fulfilling romantic relationships and are more satisfied with their lives.His new book, \u201cShift: Managing Your Emotions \u2014 So They Don\u2019t Manage You,\u201d provides a blueprint for navigating the emotional curveballs that life throws at us every day.We are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.Thank you for your patience while we verify access. If you are in Reader mode please exit and\u00a0log into\u00a0your Times account, or\u00a0subscribe\u00a0for all of The Times.Thank you for your patience while we verify access.Already a subscriber?\u00a0Log in.Want all of The Times?\u00a0Subscribe.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":21688,"comment_status":"close","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21686","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21686","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=21686"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21686\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21689,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21686\/revisions\/21689"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/21688"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=21686"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=21686"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=21686"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}