{"id":21348,"date":"2025-02-01T09:00:11","date_gmt":"2025-02-01T10:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=21348"},"modified":"2025-02-01T10:39:02","modified_gmt":"2025-02-01T10:39:02","slug":"so-you-reached-your-goal-now-what","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=21348","title":{"rendered":"So You Reached Your Goal. Now What?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" class=\"css-79rysd e1wiw3jv0\">The comedown after an accomplishment is normal. Here\u2019s how to harness it.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-0\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">At DIAKADI Fitness, a gym in San Francisco, there\u2019s a \u201cresults wall\u201d covered with plaques commemorating clients\u2019 achievements. After more than two decades, Billy Polson, a founder and co-owner of the gym, has seen milestones of all kinds make it onto the wall, from personal records in races to lifetime bests in the weight room. One woman even added a plaque once she was able to play the piano for 30 minutes without back pain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">For many people who put a plaque on the wall, Mr. Polson said, their sense of accomplishment is followed by a burning question: Now what?<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Goal setting is part of how we demarcate time, said Dr. Katy Milkman, a behavioral scientist at the University of Pennsylvania and the author of \u201cHow to Change.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Similar to a graduation, <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/11\/01\/well\/how-to-achieve-goals.html\" title>accomplishing a goal<\/a> is a way of bookmarking the end of a particular chapter of life, Dr. Milkman said. So it\u2019s natural afterward to wonder what comes next.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"Dropzone-1\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-1\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">If you just ticked off a goal, here\u2019s how experts recommend approaching the uncertainty that can follow.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"css-1u37br4 eoo0vm40\" id=\"link-1edd992e\">Don\u2019t fear the comedown.<\/h2>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">It\u2019s normal to feel a bit lost after reaching a goal, especially one you\u2019ve been working toward for a long time, said Dr. Emily Balcetis, an associate professor of psychology at New York University.<\/p>\n<div class=\"css-1336jj\">\n<div class=\"css-121kum4\">\n<div class=\"css-171quhb\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-asuuk5\">\n<div class=\"css-7axq9l\" data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript\">\n<div data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript-message\" class=\"css-6yo1no\">\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">We are having trouble retrieving the article content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-1dv1kvn\" id=\"optimistic-truncator-a11y\">\n<hr \/>\n<p>Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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Here\u2019s how to harness it.At DIAKADI Fitness, a gym in San Francisco, there\u2019s a \u201cresults wall\u201d covered with plaques commemorating clients\u2019 achievements. After more than two decades, Billy Polson, a founder and co-owner of the gym, has seen milestones of all kinds make it onto the wall, from personal records in races to lifetime bests in the weight room. One woman even added a plaque once she was able to play the piano for 30 minutes without back pain.For many people who put a plaque on the wall, Mr. Polson said, their sense of accomplishment is followed by a burning question: Now what?Goal setting is part of how we demarcate time, said Dr. Katy Milkman, a behavioral scientist at the University of Pennsylvania and the author of \u201cHow to Change.\u201dSimilar to a graduation, accomplishing a goal is a way of bookmarking the end of a particular chapter of life, Dr. Milkman said. So it\u2019s natural afterward to wonder what comes next.If you just ticked off a goal, here\u2019s how experts recommend approaching the uncertainty that can follow.Don\u2019t fear the comedown.It\u2019s normal to feel a bit lost after reaching a goal, especially one you\u2019ve been working toward for a long time, said Dr. Emily Balcetis, an associate professor of psychology at New York University.We are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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