{"id":20718,"date":"2025-01-24T09:02:03","date_gmt":"2025-01-24T10:02:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=20718"},"modified":"2025-01-24T10:27:25","modified_gmt":"2025-01-24T10:27:25","slug":"what-to-know-before-you-start-therapy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=20718","title":{"rendered":"What to Know Before You Start Therapy"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" data-testid=\"onsite-summary\" class=\"css-79rysd e1wiw3jv0\">Here\u2019s how to make the most of your visits.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-0\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">I\u2019m Christina Caron, a reporter covering mental health, and I\u2019m filling in for Jancee Dunn this week.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">When I was in college I decided to make my first ever mental health appointment with one of the school\u2019s counselors. I remember very little from that conversation except that I was so nervous I was sweating. Also, I felt that the therapist often brushed off my worries.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">At the time I didn\u2019t understand that it was OK to push back a little. And the whole experience felt so awkward and uncomfortable that I quit after just a few sessions. My takeaway \u2014 although I\u2019m sure this isn\u2019t what the therapist intended \u2014 was that I needed to toughen up, pack my worries away and squash my fears rather than really digging into what was behind those feelings.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">What I\u2019ve since come to learn, especially now that I report on mental health, is that therapy can be helpful and even life-changing. But its success largely depends on your relationship with your therapist and the quality of your communication.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"Dropzone-1\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-1\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">In case you\u2019re thinking about seeing a therapist this year, or trying to find a new one, I asked several reputable therapists to share what they wished clients knew before their first session.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"css-15h6bi9 e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-135c7189\"><span>1. A strong bond is essential.<\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">All of the therapists I consulted said that the most important thing to look for as you seek out counseling is a \u201cgood fit\u201d \u2014 or the bond between therapist and client, which mental health professionals call the therapeutic alliance.<\/p>\n<div class=\"css-1336jj\">\n<div class=\"css-121kum4\">\n<div class=\"css-171d1bw\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-asuuk5\">\n<div class=\"css-7axq9l\" data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript\">\n<div data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript-message\" class=\"css-6yo1no\">\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">We are having trouble retrieving the article content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-1dv1kvn\" id=\"optimistic-truncator-a11y\">\n<hr \/>\n<p>Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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I remember very little from that conversation except that I was so nervous I was sweating. Also, I felt that the therapist often brushed off my worries.At the time I didn\u2019t understand that it was OK to push back a little. And the whole experience felt so awkward and uncomfortable that I quit after just a few sessions. My takeaway \u2014 although I\u2019m sure this isn\u2019t what the therapist intended \u2014 was that I needed to toughen up, pack my worries away and squash my fears rather than really digging into what was behind those feelings.What I\u2019ve since come to learn, especially now that I report on mental health, is that therapy can be helpful and even life-changing. But its success largely depends on your relationship with your therapist and the quality of your communication.In case you\u2019re thinking about seeing a therapist this year, or trying to find a new one, I asked several reputable therapists to share what they wished clients knew before their first session.1. A strong bond is essential.All of the therapists I consulted said that the most important thing to look for as you seek out counseling is a \u201cgood fit\u201d \u2014 or the bond between therapist and client, which mental health professionals call the therapeutic alliance.We are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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