{"id":20559,"date":"2025-01-22T09:12:59","date_gmt":"2025-01-22T10:12:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=20559"},"modified":"2025-01-22T10:23:25","modified_gmt":"2025-01-22T10:23:25","slug":"modern-love-podcast-neko-case-if-i-didnt-yell-the-truth-what-good-was-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=20559","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Modern Love\u2019 Podcast: Neko Case: \u2018If I Didn\u2019t Yell the Truth, What Good Was I?\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-0\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<div class=\"css-zera2v\">\n<div class=\"css-p6m5rf\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3 class=\"css-1vs5pxi e1gnsphs0\" id=\"link-2644e180\"><span><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Listen to and follow <\/em><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/column\/modern-love-podcast\" title><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Modern Love<\/em><\/a><br \/><a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/modern-love\/id1065559535?mt=2\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Apple Podcasts<\/a> | <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/03Er7mSPq9IEewOgbPD3vO?si=CYApBISZSoCH6AjwdiGsFw\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spotify<\/a> | <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/music.amazon.com\/podcasts\/c40b7b82-b31d-493d-ac33-273b39d153ca\/modern-love\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon Music<\/a> | <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/playlist?list=PLdMrbgYfVl-s2_KrR5DosEB0gqr4w-XZd\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">YouTube<\/a> |<a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.iheart.com\/podcast\/560-modern-love-28288069\/\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">iHeartRadio<\/a><\/span><\/h3>\n<h2 class=\"css-tosae5 eoo0vm40\" id=\"link-4d3521c1\">\u2018To live as an unwanted child is the loneliest nadir. It is the worst. I would so much rather have given my mother her life than be here, now. Because I spent my life thinking that I ruined her life. And it\u2019s not OK for either one of us. It is cruel.\u2019<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"ImageBlock-1\">\n<div data-testid=\"imageblock-wrapper\">\n<figure class=\"img-sz-medium css-mqw7kw e1g7ppur0\" aria-label=\"media\" role=\"group\">\n<div class=\"css-1xdhyk6 erfvjey0\" data-testid=\"photoviewer-children-figure\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A portrait of the musician Neko Case with a slight smile on her face, on a red and black, abstract background\" class=\"css-r3fift\" src=\"https:\/\/static01.nyt.com\/images\/2025\/01\/22\/podcasts\/22modernlove-neko-case\/22modernlove-neko-case-articleLarge.jpg?quality=75&amp;auto=webp&amp;disable=upscale\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/div><figcaption data-testid=\"photoviewer-children-caption\" class=\"css-gbc9ki ewdxa0s0\"><span class=\"css-14fe1uy e1z0qqy90\"><span><span aria-hidden=\"false\">Photo Illustration by The New York Times; Background Illustration: Brian Rea<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-1\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">In a new memoir out next week, the singer-songwriter Neko Case shares some painful childhood memories. In the studio with Anna Martin, Case is open and unapologetically angry as she describes being treated like \u201can unwanted child.\u201d Both parents, she says, struggled with trauma and addiction. They often left her with no food and only her pets for company. Case also reads a Modern Love essay about the complex heartbreak that comes with being estranged from a parent with an addiction, and the joys of finding love and acceptance in the wake of that pain.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Neko Case\u2019s memoir, \u201c<a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/titles\/neko-case\/the-harder-i-fight-the-more-i-love-you\/9781538710500\/\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Harder I Fight the More I Love You<\/a>,\u201d comes out Jan. 28.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Caitlin McCormick\u2019s Modern Love essay, \u201cMy Mother, the Stranger,\u201d can be found <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2023\/05\/12\/style\/modern-love-mothers-day-alcoholism-estrangement.html\" title>here<\/a>. McCormick, who recently published a short fiction piece in <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/thesewaneereview.com\/articles\/eleanor\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Sewanee Review<\/a>, is working on a novel.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Listener callout alert: For our upcoming Valentine\u2019s Day episode, the Modern Love team wants to hear about a moment when you knew you were falling for someone. Whether it happened all at once or as a gradual process, we want to learn about how it happened. Where were you? What did it feel like? What did you do next? (You can tell us about a current relationship, a past love or something happening to you right now.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">The deadline is Feb. 5, 2025. 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If you are in Reader mode please exit and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/myaccount.nytimes.com\/auth\/login?response_type=cookie&amp;client_id=vi&amp;redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nytimes.com%2F2025%2F01%2F22%2Fpodcasts%2Fneko-case-yells-the-truth.html&amp;asset=opttrunc\">log into<\/a>\u00a0your Times account, or\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/subscription?campaignId=89WYR&amp;redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nytimes.com%2F2025%2F01%2F22%2Fpodcasts%2Fneko-case-yells-the-truth.html\">subscribe<\/a>\u00a0for all of The Times.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-1g71tqy\">\n<div data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-message\" class=\"css-6yo1no\">\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Thank you for your patience while we verify access.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Already a subscriber?\u00a0<a data-testid=\"log-in-link\" class=\"css-z5ryv4\" href=\"https:\/\/myaccount.nytimes.com\/auth\/login?response_type=cookie&amp;client_id=vi&amp;redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nytimes.com%2F2025%2F01%2F22%2Fpodcasts%2Fneko-case-yells-the-truth.html&amp;asset=opttrunc\">Log in<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Want all of The Times?\u00a0<a data-testid=\"subscribe-link\" class=\"css-z5ryv4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/subscription?campaignId=89WYR&amp;redirect_uri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nytimes.com%2F2025%2F01%2F22%2Fpodcasts%2Fneko-case-yells-the-truth.html\">Subscribe<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Listen to and follow Modern LoveApple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | YouTube |iHeartRadio\u2018To live as an unwanted child is the loneliest nadir. It is the worst. I would so much rather have given my mother her life than be here, now. Because I spent my life thinking that I ruined her life. And it\u2019s not OK for either one of us. It is cruel.\u2019Photo Illustration by The New York Times; Background Illustration: Brian ReaIn a new memoir out next week, the singer-songwriter Neko Case shares some painful childhood memories. In the studio with Anna Martin, Case is open and unapologetically angry as she describes being treated like \u201can unwanted child.\u201d Both parents, she says, struggled with trauma and addiction. They often left her with no food and only her pets for company. Case also reads a Modern Love essay about the complex heartbreak that comes with being estranged from a parent with an addiction, and the joys of finding love and acceptance in the wake of that pain.Neko Case\u2019s memoir, \u201cThe Harder I Fight the More I Love You,\u201d comes out Jan. 28.Caitlin McCormick\u2019s Modern Love essay, \u201cMy Mother, the Stranger,\u201d can be found here. McCormick, who recently published a short fiction piece in The Sewanee Review, is working on a novel.Listener callout alert: For our upcoming Valentine\u2019s Day episode, the Modern Love team wants to hear about a moment when you knew you were falling for someone. Whether it happened all at once or as a gradual process, we want to learn about how it happened. Where were you? What did it feel like? What did you do next? (You can tell us about a current relationship, a past love or something happening to you right now.)The deadline is Feb. 5, 2025. 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