{"id":18705,"date":"2024-12-20T09:03:14","date_gmt":"2024-12-20T10:03:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=18705"},"modified":"2024-12-20T10:24:09","modified_gmt":"2024-12-20T10:24:09","slug":"how-to-talk-to-a-loved-one-about-their-drinking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=18705","title":{"rendered":"How to Talk to a Loved One About Their Drinking"},"content":{"rendered":"
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There are ways to broach the topic successfully \u2014 it\u2019s all about time, place and tone.<\/p>\n

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The holidays are a time of excess. Too much food. Too much drink. And sometimes an alcohol problem can masquerade as high spirits and good cheer.<\/p>\n

The holidays can also be a vulnerable period for people struggling with alcohol or drug use. A drinking problem can \u201cmagnify that this is not a happy time\u201d for all, said Patricia O\u2019Gorman, a trauma and addiction psychologist in Saranac Lake, N.Y.<\/p>\n

So what should you do if you see family members or friends drinking too much this season? It probably isn\u2019t the obvious time of year for an intervention. But sometimes it\u2019s the only chance we have to see loved ones we care and worry about.<\/p>\n

Years ago, I came home for Thanksgiving, and immediately received a request from my mom. It wasn\u2019t to make mashed potatoes or set the table. She asked me to help my sister find a wig.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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The night before, on a bender, my sister had shaved her head. And that morning in the wig shop, I decided to confront her about her substance use. I knew it wasn\u2019t the right moment, but I was desperate to inspire some self-reflection. Alcoholism runs in the family<\/a>, and I was terrified.<\/p>\n

It was a disaster. I was not prepared for her defensiveness, or to keep my emotions in check. But experts say there are ways to talk to someone about their drinking without ruining the holidays \u2014 it\u2019s all about time, place and tone.<\/p>\n

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There are ways to broach the topic successfully \u2014 it\u2019s all about time, place and tone.The holidays are a time of excess. Too much food. Too much drink. And sometimes an alcohol problem can masquerade as high spirits and good cheer.The holidays can also be a vulnerable period for people struggling with alcohol or drug use. A drinking problem can \u201cmagnify that this is not a happy time\u201d for all, said Patricia O\u2019Gorman, a trauma and addiction psychologist in Saranac Lake, N.Y.So what should you do if you see family members or friends drinking too much this season? It probably isn\u2019t the obvious time of year for an intervention. But sometimes it\u2019s the only chance we have to see loved ones we care and worry about.Years ago, I came home for Thanksgiving, and immediately received a request from my mom. It wasn\u2019t to make mashed potatoes or set the table. She asked me to help my sister find a wig.The night before, on a bender, my sister had shaved her head. And that morning in the wig shop, I decided to confront her about her substance use. I knew it wasn\u2019t the right moment, but I was desperate to inspire some self-reflection. Alcoholism runs in the family, and I was terrified.It was a disaster. I was not prepared for her defensiveness, or to keep my emotions in check. But experts say there are ways to talk to someone about their drinking without ruining the holidays \u2014 it\u2019s all about time, place and tone.We are having trouble retrieving the article content.Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.Thank you for your patience while we verify access. If you are in Reader mode please exit and\u00a0log into\u00a0your Times account, or\u00a0subscribe\u00a0for all of The Times.Thank you for your patience while we verify access.Already a subscriber?\u00a0Log in.Want all of The Times?\u00a0Subscribe.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":18707,"comment_status":"close","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=18705"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18705\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18708,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18705\/revisions\/18708"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18707"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=18705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=18705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=18705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}