{"id":18686,"date":"2024-12-19T20:05:04","date_gmt":"2024-12-19T21:05:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=18686"},"modified":"2024-12-19T21:23:17","modified_gmt":"2024-12-19T21:23:17","slug":"getting-your-pink-back-how-moms-felt-like-themselves-again-after-having-a-baby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=18686","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Getting Your Pink Back:\u2019 How Moms Felt Like Themselves Again After Having a Baby"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" class=\"css-79rysd e1wiw3jv0\">Flamingos, which can lose their bright color when tending to their young but get it back over time, have been a helpful metaphor for some women in their postpartum experiences.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-0\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">With five young children, Linnea Chambery had found herself at one of her most challenging points as a mother.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Facing a host of family health issues, including a child with ongoing health complications, Ms. Chambery and her husband had started to feel as if there was no end in sight to their constant struggles in parenthood. But one day, Ms. Chambery came across a <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lindseygurk\/video\/7091073036303994154?lang=en\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">video<\/a> on social media discussing \u2014 of all things \u2014 the color of flamingos.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">In the video, a content creator named Lindsey Gurk said that flamingos can lose their pink color when caring for their young but get it back <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/animals.sandiegozoo.org\/animals\/flamingo#:~:text=As%20the%20parents%20feed%20their,and%20eat%20on%20their%20own.\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">over time<\/a>. Using the flamingos as a metaphor for her fellow parents who felt overwhelmed, Ms. Gurk reminded them that it was temporary and offered advice: \u201cIf you\u2019re feeling not quite like yourself, maybe you\u2019re feeling a little bit drained, just keep in mind you\u2019re doing it all for your chicks.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">She soon added, \u201cWe are never given more than we can carry, and we will get our pink back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">At such a dark time, Ms. Chambery had found a glimmer of hope.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"Dropzone-1\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\" data-testid=\"companionColumn-1\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cIt hit me in this moment,\u201d Ms. Chambery, now 38 and living in Rochester, N.Y., said in an interview. \u201cIt is going to get better. This is not going to be like this forever.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">What started as a short video years ago has since become a movement, as Ms. Gurk has encouraged fellow moms to \u201cget your pink back.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"InteractiveBlock-3\">\n<section data-testid=\"inline-interactive\" id=\"19xp-pinkback-igpost\" data-id=\"100000009887929\" data-source-id=\"100000009887929\" class=\"interactive-content interactive-size-scoop css-1ewe15d\">\n<div class=\"css-17ih8de interactive-body\" data-sourceid=\"100000009887929\" id=\"embed-id-100000009887929\">\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C25HHTYucpc\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\"background:#FFF;border:0;border-radius:3px;margin: 1px;max-width:540px;min-width:326px;padding:0;width:99.375%;width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px);width:calc(100% - 2px)\">\n<div style=\"padding:16px\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C25HHTYucpc\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\"background:#FFFFFF;line-height:0;padding:0 0;text-align:center;text-decoration:none;width:100%\" target=\"_blank\"> <\/p>\n<div style=\"flex-direction: row;align-items: center\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 50%;flex-grow: 0;height: 40px;margin-right: 14px;width: 40px\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"flex-direction: column;flex-grow: 1;justify-content: center\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;margin-bottom: 6px;width: 100px\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;width: 60px\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"height:50px;margin:0 auto 12px;width:50px\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px\">\n<div style=\"color:#3897f0;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-style:normal;font-weight:550;line-height:18px\">View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"flex-direction: row;margin-bottom: 14px;align-items: center\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 50%;height: 12.5px;width: 12.5px\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;height: 12.5px;width: 12.5px;flex-grow: 0;margin-right: 14px;margin-left: 2px\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 50%;height: 12.5px;width: 12.5px\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 50%;flex-grow: 0;height: 20px;width: 20px\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0;height: 0;border-top: 2px solid transparent;border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4;border-bottom: 2px solid transparent\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px;border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4;border-right: 8px solid transparent\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;flex-grow: 0;height: 12px;width: 16px\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0;height: 0;border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4;border-left: 8px solid transparent\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"flex-direction: column;flex-grow: 1;justify-content: center;margin-bottom: 24px\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;margin-bottom: 6px;width: 224px\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4;border-radius: 4px;flex-grow: 0;height: 14px;width: 144px\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color:#c9c8cd;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;line-height:17px;margin-bottom:0;margin-top:8px;overflow:hidden;padding:8px 0 7px;text-align:center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C25HHTYucpc\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\"color:#c9c8cd;font-family:Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-style:normal;font-weight:normal;line-height:17px;text-decoration:none\" target=\"_blank\">A post shared by CrystalO | Dallas Content Creator | Lifestyle (@crystalotv)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<\/div>\n<div data-testid=\"Optimistic-4\">\n<div class=\"css-1336jj\">\n<div class=\"css-121kum4\">\n<div class=\"css-171d1bw\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-asuuk5\">\n<div class=\"css-7axq9l\" data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript\">\n<div data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript-message\" class=\"css-6yo1no\">\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">We are having trouble retrieving the article content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-1dv1kvn\" id=\"optimistic-truncator-a11y\">\n<hr \/>\n<p>Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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