{"id":1743,"date":"2024-03-06T09:01:33","date_gmt":"2024-03-06T10:01:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=1743"},"modified":"2024-03-12T21:05:15","modified_gmt":"2024-03-12T21:05:15","slug":"lynne-hughes-turned-a-loss-into-camp-for-grieving-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=1743","title":{"rendered":"Lynne Hughes Turned a Loss Into Camp for Grieving Children"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" class=\"css-1n0orw4 e1wiw3jv0\">Lynne Hughes, whose parents died when she was a child, founded Comfort Zone Camp as a way to help grieving children.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-798hid etfikam0\">This article is part of our <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/spotlight\/women-and-leadership\" title>Women and Leadership special report<\/a> that coincides with global events in March celebrating the accomplishments of women. This conversation has been edited and condensed.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"css-7ad88g e1mu4ftr0\" \/>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Lynne Hughes, 59, a Detroit-area native, lost both of her parents by the time she was 12 years old. When she was 9, her mother died from a blood clot, and three years later, her father followed when he had a heart attack. Without any grieving resources for children to turn to for support, Ms. Hughes, who now lives in Richmond, Va., said that she coped with her loss largely alone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Following a series of jobs after graduating from Michigan State University with a communications degree, including hospice work, she looked to her own story as the impetus to start a bereavement camp for children, <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/comfortzonecamp.org\/\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Comfort Zone Camp<\/a> (CZC). Now in its 25th year, CZC is a free three-day camp for children and young adults 7 to 25. It is offered in 12 locations across the United States including in Virginia, New Jersey and California, and is held throughout the year at venues such as YMCA camps. Since its founding, CZC has served more than 24,000 children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">How did the loss of your parents inspire Comfort Zone Camp?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">After my parents died, my three siblings and I lived with my stepmother for four years, who made it very clear that she didn\u2019t want to raise us. Then we moved in with an aunt and uncle, and my uncle\u2019s first words to me were, \u201cI will never love you as a father or uncle, nor should you expect me to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">It was hard and lonely. Right after my mom passed, I attended a two-week summer camp and loved it. It allowed me to get back to being a kid again, even temporarily, and in college, I worked as a camp counselor and continued my love. As I got older, I thought, \u201cWouldn\u2019t it be amazing to combine my love for camp with helping grieving kids?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">I founded CZC when I was 35. My goal was to create a place where kids could meet others just like them, feel validated in their experiences and gain tools to help them navigate their grief journey \u2014 all in a fun and supportive environment. 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This conversation has been edited and condensed.Lynne Hughes, 59, a Detroit-area native, lost both of her parents by the time she was 12 years old. When she was 9, her mother died from a blood clot, and three years later, her father followed when he had a heart attack. Without any grieving resources for children to turn to for support, Ms. Hughes, who now lives in Richmond, Va., said that she coped with her loss largely alone.Following a series of jobs after graduating from Michigan State University with a communications degree, including hospice work, she looked to her own story as the impetus to start a bereavement camp for children, Comfort Zone Camp (CZC). Now in its 25th year, CZC is a free three-day camp for children and young adults 7 to 25. It is offered in 12 locations across the United States including in Virginia, New Jersey and California, and is held throughout the year at venues such as YMCA camps. Since its founding, CZC has served more than 24,000 children.How did the loss of your parents inspire Comfort Zone Camp?After my parents died, my three siblings and I lived with my stepmother for four years, who made it very clear that she didn\u2019t want to raise us. Then we moved in with an aunt and uncle, and my uncle\u2019s first words to me were, \u201cI will never love you as a father or uncle, nor should you expect me to.\u201dIt was hard and lonely. Right after my mom passed, I attended a two-week summer camp and loved it. It allowed me to get back to being a kid again, even temporarily, and in college, I worked as a camp counselor and continued my love. As I got older, I thought, \u201cWouldn\u2019t it be amazing to combine my love for camp with helping grieving kids?\u201dI founded CZC when I was 35. 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