{"id":10212,"date":"2024-07-26T09:05:17","date_gmt":"2024-07-26T09:05:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=10212"},"modified":"2024-07-26T09:25:35","modified_gmt":"2024-07-26T09:25:35","slug":"how-to-spot-dating-yellow-flags","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/medexperts.pro\/?p=10212","title":{"rendered":"How to Spot Dating \u2018Yellow Flags\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><\/div>\n<p id=\"article-summary\" data-testid=\"onsite-summary\" class=\"css-79rysd e1wiw3jv0\">Are they deal-breakers? Here is how to tell.<\/p>\n<section class=\"meteredContent css-1r7ky0e\">\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">I\u2019ve gotten a flurry of texts lately from friends who are dating, asking whether or not something is a \u201cred flag.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cShe still lives with her ex-husband. Red flag, right?\u201d one friend asked.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Another wrote: \u201cHe mostly texts in emoji. Your thoughts?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">The dating world is festooned with flags. Green flags, like kindness and empathy, are a signal to keep going. Red ones, like compulsive lying, might mean hitting the brakes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Yellow flags, however, are trickier, said Todd Baratz, a therapist and author of \u201cHow to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind.\u201d They signal caution \u2014 but they\u2019re \u201cnot a 9-1-1 alert,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-s99gbd StoryBodyCompanionColumn\">\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">A yellow flag isn\u2019t a reason for you (and your friends) to run a forensic investigation like \u201ca detective doing psychoanalytic dating work,\u201d Baratz said. Instead, a yellow flag is a signal that you need to communicate with the other person.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">And while everyone has a different definition of yellow flags, I asked experts to share some of the ones they hear about the most \u2014 and why you should keep an eye on them.<\/p>\n<div class=\"css-1336jj\">\n<div class=\"css-121kum4\">\n<div class=\"css-171d1bw\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-asuuk5\">\n<div class=\"css-7axq9l\" data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript\">\n<div data-testid=\"optimistic-truncator-noscript-message\" class=\"css-6yo1no\">\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">We are having trouble retrieving the article content.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-3kpklk\">Please enable JavaScript in your browser settings.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"css-1dv1kvn\" id=\"optimistic-truncator-a11y\">\n<hr \/>\n<p>Thank you for your patience while we verify access. 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Here is how to tell.I\u2019ve gotten a flurry of texts lately from friends who are dating, asking whether or not something is a \u201cred flag.\u201d\u201cShe still lives with her ex-husband. Red flag, right?\u201d one friend asked.Another wrote: \u201cHe mostly texts in emoji. Your thoughts?\u201dThe dating world is festooned with flags. Green flags, like kindness and empathy, are a signal to keep going. Red ones, like compulsive lying, might mean hitting the brakes.Yellow flags, however, are trickier, said Todd Baratz, a therapist and author of \u201cHow to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind.\u201d They signal caution \u2014 but they\u2019re \u201cnot a 9-1-1 alert,\u201d he said.A yellow flag isn\u2019t a reason for you (and your friends) to run a forensic investigation like \u201ca detective doing psychoanalytic dating work,\u201d Baratz said. 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